diff --git a/packages/vant-use/src/index.ts b/packages/vant-use/src/index.ts
index ddaf3ebc2..6de39887b 100644
--- a/packages/vant-use/src/index.ts
+++ b/packages/vant-use/src/index.ts
@@ -4,3 +4,4 @@ export { useWindowSize } from './useWindowSize';
 export { useScrollParent } from './useScrollParent';
 export { useEventListener } from './useEventListener';
 export { usePageVisibility } from './usePageVisibility';
+export { useParent, useChildren } from './useRelation';
diff --git a/packages/vant-use/src/useRelation/index.ts b/packages/vant-use/src/useRelation/index.ts
new file mode 100644
index 000000000..01e70d635
--- /dev/null
+++ b/packages/vant-use/src/useRelation/index.ts
@@ -0,0 +1,129 @@
+import {
+  VNode,
+  inject,
+  isVNode,
+  provide,
+  computed,
+  reactive,
+  onUnmounted,
+  getCurrentInstance,
+  VNodeNormalizedChildren,
+  ComponentPublicInstance as PublicInstance,
+  ComponentInternalInstance as InternalInstance,
+} from 'vue';
+
+export function flattenVNodes(children: VNodeNormalizedChildren) {
+  const result: VNode[] = [];
+
+  const traverse = (children: VNodeNormalizedChildren) => {
+    if (Array.isArray(children)) {
+      children.forEach((child) => {
+        if (isVNode(child)) {
+          result.push(child);
+
+          if (child.component?.subTree) {
+            traverse(child.component.subTree.children);
+          }
+
+          if (child.children) {
+            traverse(child.children);
+          }
+        }
+      });
+    }
+  };
+
+  traverse(children);
+
+  return result;
+}
+
+// sort children instances by vnodes order
+export function sortChildren(
+  parent: InternalInstance,
+  publicChildren: PublicInstance[],
+  internalChildren: InternalInstance[]
+) {
+  const vnodes = flattenVNodes(parent.subTree.children);
+
+  internalChildren.sort(
+    (a, b) => vnodes.indexOf(a.vnode) - vnodes.indexOf(b.vnode)
+  );
+
+  const orderedPublicChildren = internalChildren.map((item) => item.proxy!);
+
+  publicChildren.sort((a, b) => {
+    const indexA = orderedPublicChildren.indexOf(a);
+    const indexB = orderedPublicChildren.indexOf(b);
+    return indexA - indexB;
+  });
+}
+
+export function useChildren(key: string) {
+  const publicChildren: PublicInstance[] = reactive([]);
+  const internalChildren: InternalInstance[] = reactive([]);
+  const parent = getCurrentInstance()!;
+
+  const linkChildren = (value: any) => {
+    const link = (child: InternalInstance) => {
+      if (child.proxy) {
+        internalChildren.push(child);
+        publicChildren.push(child.proxy);
+        sortChildren(parent, publicChildren, internalChildren);
+      }
+    };
+
+    const unlink = (child: InternalInstance) => {
+      const index = internalChildren.indexOf(child);
+      publicChildren.splice(index, 1);
+      internalChildren.splice(index, 1);
+    };
+
+    provide(key, {
+      link,
+      unlink,
+      children: publicChildren,
+      internalChildren,
+      ...value,
+    });
+  };
+
+  return {
+    children: publicChildren,
+    linkChildren,
+  };
+}
+
+type ParentProvide<T> = T & {
+  link(child: InternalInstance): void;
+  unlink(child: InternalInstance): void;
+  children: PublicInstance[];
+  internalChildren: InternalInstance[];
+};
+
+export function useParent<T>(key: string) {
+  const parent = inject<ParentProvide<T> | null>(key, null);
+
+  if (parent) {
+    const instance = getCurrentInstance();
+
+    if (instance) {
+      const { link, unlink, internalChildren, ...rest } = parent;
+
+      link(instance);
+
+      onUnmounted(() => {
+        unlink(instance);
+      });
+
+      const index = computed(() => internalChildren.indexOf(instance));
+
+      return {
+        parent: rest,
+        index,
+      };
+    }
+  }
+
+  return {};
+}